Love... it is a universal phenomenon, which touches every heart at least once. You cannot ignore its presence in your heart.
You must know that someone must be there for you, even if you still do not find him/her. However, sometimes, you come across a person, who seems to be closer to your heart. You care for him/her. You want to spend time with him/her. You know that there is something special between you two. What is it?
How do you know its love? Has Cupid's arrow finally hit you? Are you in love? Is it the feeling of love, which makes you think about the person all the time? Let's find out.
Plucking the rose petals for "He/she loves me; he/she loves me not" game is a romantic but unscientific way to know if it is love, after all, it depends on your luck and the total number of the petals. The best way to know it, is through your heart itself. It is only your heart, which can tell you that you are in love. Judge your feelings closely to know whether you truly love the person or is it simply an infatuation!
How do you know its love with some simple questions: There are some common questions, which you must ask yourself in order to determine whether you are in love with the person?
- Question no. 1: Can I think anything without him/her?
- Question no 2. Is he/she the first person, with whom I want to share my thoughts, happiness, and sorrow?
- Question no 3. Can I wait for him/her, if he/she needs some time?
- Question no 4. Can I sacrifice my happiness for his/her happiness?
- Question no 5. Do I respect him/her?
- Question no 6. Do I feel sorry after an argument?
- Question no 7. Do I feel worried when he/she falls sick?
- Question no 8. Do I feel jealous when he/ she talks with another opposite sex person?
- Question no 9. Do I wait for his/her calls?
- Question no 10. Am I afraid of losing him/her?
These are some common love questions, with which you can help you to know your heart. Give it a try. If any of the answers is 'No', you may need to think of your relationship once again. In addition, if you answer 'Yes' to all of these questions, you must know that you feel very strongly for the person. And truly it is love.
Sometimes, we feel it is love, simply because we want to be in love. Love is a big word to describe. The feelings of love are not the only factor, which can show if you are in love or not, but trust and commitment are also important to accompany your feelings of love. You must recognize the thin line of difference between love and infatuation. Be honest while you give answer to the aforementioned questions. Do not be in pressure and do not let others pressurise you either.
If you feel that you need some time to answer the questions, buy some time. Allow yourself and the person to know more about each other. Answer the questions after a couple of months and see how your feelings change drastically.
So are you in love?
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