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He Doesn't Love Me Anymore

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Everyone wants that perfect romance, the kind that makes you feel special and loved. Every girl wants a man by her side who knows how to make her feel nice and protected, and when you find that special someone the world does seem like a much more beautiful place. Every relationship, may not always have joy and sunshine however. Sometimes it is difficult to be able to sustain the amount of love and attraction that one felt for their partners in the beginning. The “He doesn’t love me anymore” situation is something that many women face and to help them, we have tips and tricks to make it through the difficult phase.

 

He Doesn't Love Me Anymore

The Make or Break Decision

  • If you feel like you are being ignored and your opinions are not being valued anymore, then these are a few signs that your lover does not feel the same way about you anymore. The situation might come as something of a shock to you but you have to be strong and think of what your next course of action should be. Would you want to try to make him love you again or would you want to move on with your life and start afresh?

  • If you think that you want to give the relationship a second chance then you need to try to think from his point of view. You are your own worst critic can you think of something that you have done in the past, or some habit of yours that is driving him or keeping him away. If you try to look at things from his vantage point then you might be able to get an insight into why the love you both shared earlier is fading away.

  • You should try and avoid coercing him or threatening him into staying in a relationship with you. It will definitely degrade matters further and make matters even worse. You need to be slow and patient about it, for you cannot rush into making hasty decisions and rake up arguments which would only make him inch further away from you.

  • Know when to admit defeat, once you know that you have tried everything that you possible could to make him love you again and it didn’t work, it is better to give up. Do not obsess about the outcome of what you had thought would be the perfect romance, for sometimes life doesn’t deal fair cards and you have to swallow the hurt and the pain and move on.

 

When You Are Trying To Move On

  • In case you have already decided to move on with your life and do not want anything to do with your lover again, then it is time to let the healing process begin. You need to feel the hurt and the pain, allow it to make you more resolved to not make the same mistake again and move forward in life proud and strong.

  • Let the hurt that you’ve faced be your focus, so that you can drop the rose- tinted glasses of love and be able to see your relationship for what it really was. Once you have done that, it is time get rid of everything that reminds you of him, all the gifts, messages etc. go out the window and never come back.

 

Getting Back Into The Game

  • The next step would be to venture out and look for creative things that you can indulge in, that will take your mind off missing you. You need to eventually get back in the game and keep a lookout for true love which might be just around the corner.

  • Just because it is over doesn't mean that you will never find love ever again, so be there proud and unafraid. Have fun and you never know when you might bump into that stranger who is really the one for you.


 

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