Don’t you feel sorry for that guy, that one guy, who always seems to be suffering in misery? You know the guy, the one who complains that girls reject him, the one who is dumped via email, the one who finally gets married…only to discover his wife has been cheating on him.
That poor guy! Er, apologies if that guy is you.
Yes, there’s a nice guy in every circle of friends. This particular man is a great catch. He has a job, has nice personal qualities and even knows a thing or two about world history. (Or Star Trek…whatever!)
So why can’t this guy find a girl that deserves him? Where are all the good women, the ones who appreciate hardworking, devoted guys like your pal? There is no shortage of good women. There is, however, a major problem in the dating game. The problem is that so many good quality guys don’t understand how to flirt. They don’t understand the essence of attraction. So what they do is end up scaring the girl away or boring her to death, because they were too chicken to ever make a play for the girl they like.
What you need to do is not introduce them to some nice girl. What you need to do is sit this nice guy down, and shoot straight about the real problem. Just in case you need a few pointers, here are 10 hard and fast dating rules that can fix any man.
Stop being so desperate for sex or romantic attention.
A real man is confident enough to not “need” a woman’s attention, nor does he need to score above all else. Thus, this alpha male is not going to beg for attention. The attention comes to him.
Stop settling for women that you don’t like.
This not only includes level of attraction, (as in, “Oh, she’s way too good for me I better settle on some more in my league!) but also “projects” that require too much maintenance.
Do not tolerate abuse, negligence, coldness or any other negative attention
The hard fact is that a lot of women will test you in this respect. Some don’t even test you; some women out there are just cold-blooded snakes! So what do you do when you sense that a woman is taking advantage of you? DO NOT tolerate it! Be a man and have the strength to say no.
Don’t be predictable or too nice.
A lot of men out there try so hard to be nice, or “safe” they forget to be interesting.
Give women space.
Don’t be needy, pushy, gooey or manipulative. Be cool and never let them see you sweat.
Don’t apologize for your sexual needs or desires.
If you’re afraid of admitting your sexual attraction, you are well on your way to becoming androgynous. Men are attracted to women. Big deal. You should get over it, and your prudish woman should get over it too. These are the naughty feelings that start relationships!
Give her the gift of missing you.
Don’t be constantly available to her. Otherwise, she will think you sit by the phone counting the days and hours…
Work out and diet.
Sure, we could tell you that it’s all about attitude and yada yada. But let’s be honest…if you’ve got a nice body and eat your fruits and veggies for optimal health you will look like a much more attractive man. And it will definitely not hurt your chances.
Have fun at everyone’s expense. Don’t ever be so stuffy that you become a bore. Make things just a little edgy. It’s fun for you and for her.
Learn how to be a GREAT lover.
Learn how to make love like a king. If you master this, you probably won’t stay lonely for long.
Now tell your friend to get out there and start playing the game!
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