When the moment arrives and you lock eyes with the attractive woman across the room, your thoughts will quickly move from animal attraction to how to get her to fall in love with you.
Despite what we often think and say about men, deep down we are looking for the right kind of woman to commit the rest of our lives to.
Try as much as you want to deny it, but time will reveal the truth and you must be prepared to make an effort to earn her affection – women do love the chase, after all.
Wondering what the best way to turn her heart is? Put these five tips into practice and you’ll be well on your way:
Don’t Go Too Fast
The early part of a relationship, when you both of you are merely excited to have someone new to share your days with, it’s easy to get wrapped up in each other.
Slow down and take your time, as the feeling you are rushing in any way is a recipe for disaster. If you string your courtship out over several dates, she is far more likely to develop strong feelings for who you are as a man instead of just that you are one.
Be Honest and Vulnerable
Women speak through emotion. In order to break down her walls, you are going to have to open up yourself. Tell her about your childhood home or friends you’ve lost touch with.
Though you shouldn’t necessarily do all of this on your first date (You’re taking it easy, remember?), it is a great way to create conversation that reveals a lot about who you both are as your relationship progresses.
Stick to Your Word
It seems like the simplest thing, but there is nothing more attractive than keeping promises. The ability to follow through when you agree to something is, in her eyes, a good sign for the future.
Strange as it sounds, she can picture you picking up the kids from school when she can’t make it or grabbing her dad at the airport. These are basic characteristics she is looking for, even when she doesn’t know it.
Keep the Home Fires Burning
There is no way to avoid plummeting back to earth after the heady days of your first several dates. Eventually, there comes a time when you have to really work to keep the passion going in your relationship – the “newness” of everything you do together will wear off.
You can combat it one of two ways: find other activities to experience for the first time or set aside time away from other responsibilities to charge your relationship’s “passion battery.”
Tell Her What She Wants to Hear
Ultimately, you are going to have to learn how to communicate your feelings to her in a way she understands. For some women, that means gifts (of any size) while, for others, it can be just a nice handwritten note.
Believe it or not, even something like taking out the trash can show her you love her. Once you know how to express your feelings in a way she reads loud and clear, you are in.
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