Home » Articles » Does Absence Make The Heart Grow Fonder Or Wander

Does Absence Make The Heart Grow Fonder Or Wander

Posted on :2013-04-01 in

Have you ever thought what effect does the absence of a partner has in a relationship? Some people say that it makes hearts go wander whereas some believe that it makes the love in the hearts grow to larger extents. Well, it is not correct to come to a verdict since it largely depends on the depth of the relationship and the two people involved in it.

If there is true love and faith existing in the relationship, a long distance or absence of one partner can never affect it adversely, however, if the feelings are superficial, then that can be fatal for the relationship. Read on to know more:

Some distance in a relationship is a must to make the heart grow fonder: It is very important to keep a little distance in every relationship, especially when it comes to love affairs. Call it “giving some space” to each other or whatever, that eventually is good for sustaining the relationship.Often we forget that our beloved is not our private property but an individual with a strong sense of individuality and that’s where the problem starts. Being too much clingy actually ruins the essence of the relationship.
 

Does Absence Make The Heart Grow Fonder Or Wander

Create some absence from your partner deliberately so that personal interests can be pursued and individuality of a person can be maintained. You will find how your love misses you madly when you don’t meet him/her for a long time. Isn’t that exciting? When you are away from your beloved for some time, you realize how much he/she means to you and the feelings become stronger and stronger. Too much closeness often makes you possessive over the person and the person finds it difficult to breathe in the relationship which eventually shatters the feelings. A calculated distance or absence from your beloved makes you yearn for him/her, creates sensible human beings and makes the relationship healthier and long lasting.

Too much absence may lead to a disastrous end: You must be aware of the saying, out of sight, out of mind and that’s so true for the relationship. When you are away from your beloved for few days, you find your honey longing for you and love only becomes stronger, but if days turn into weeks and then months, the consequences may differ. Too much space in between actually creates a never to be fulfilled vacuum between two of you and love gradually fades away. Emotional needs minimize as that cannot be catered by the other and this imbalance is fatal for the relationship. Similar thing happens for physical intimacy. Soon, both the needs are fulfilled by others and the old relationship then leads towards mere formality. In most cases of married couples, absence of a partner makes the other go for extramarital affairs if the emotional connection between partners weakens. The reasons are simple, every human has some emotional and physical needs and they need to be satisfied in time. Absence of a partner is a hindrance to both and hence problems arise. Phone calls minimize, mail boxes remain empty and relationship dies a natural death.

AAPOD : 01/04/2013
 

10 Ways to Know If She Likes Me
10 Ways to Know If She Likes Me
Safe Dating Tips - How To Date Safe
Safe Dating Tips - How To Date Safe
Have a Safe Relationship
Have a Safe Relationship
How to Ask for guy's Number
How to Ask for guy's Number
How To Let Go Of Your Ego And Improve Your Relationships
How To Let Go Of Your Ego And Improve Your Relationships
Best Valentine’s Day quotes for her
Best Valentine’s Day quotes for her
Have a Mature Relationship
Have a Mature Relationship
How to Know When People Are Attracted to You
How to Know When People Are Attracted to You
10 Tips on How to Stay Calm Around an Ex
10 Tips on How to Stay Calm Around an Ex
COMMENTS