Are you afraid of dating simply because of the fear of rejection? Well, you are not alone in this league. There are a number of men and women, who prefer to live without love after their divorce, simply because they are conscious about their relationship status.
Serena is a 45-year-divorcy. She is independent in her life with a well-rewarding job and a beautiful 10-year-old daughter.
It is not that she does not feel any urge for love and companionship, but what makes her stopped in life is her consciousness about her relationship status and her fears of what her daughter would react if she starts dating someone.
Truly, like Serena many men and women do not want to date after their divorce simply because they think none will be interested on them. On the other hand, many adults avoid dating because they do not want their kids to struggle adjusting with their parent’s new partner.
Are you afraid of rejection: Is the fear of rejection one of the few reasons, which stops you in your life? After divorce, many men and women feel that no one will have any interest on them, since their ex-partners have left them for a reason. Many people do not approach the persons, thy like, because they anticipate rejection. First, of all, you need to forget about the rejection myth. Boost enough confidence for yourself that none can perceive you as poor and deprived. Remember, you are the most powerful individual to make yourself attractive in front of others. If someone indicates that he/she does not want to date you, you should consider it as his/her bad luck. Spot blaming yourself. Start afresh and step into a new life.
Are you afraid of your kid’ acceptance: Some divorced people are afraid of thinking of dating, simply because of their kid’s reactions. Here in this case, there should be a set of rules. Even if you start liking someone, do not take him/her to your home, until you are sure about your relationship. Before taking him/her to your home, ask him/her if he/she accepts you with you kid or not. Kids are insecure. If your kid does not like your new partner, he/she may start imagining you remarry secretly.
Time is the biggest factor: As they say, time heals every wound. If you feel that you need some time to get ready for further relationship, take your time. Do not hurry to prove that you too can date after divorce. Try to understand what you exactly want in your life. Try to discover your inherent value. Listen to your inner instinct.
Of course, every person needs a certain time to overcome from the trauma of a separation or divorce. Take your time and when you feel that you are ready for it, search for a suitable date. There are millions of options in your hand. The smartest option to search for your date is internet. There are so many online dating sites, that you can easily try your luck on this magical tool. Who knows your ideal match is waiting for you just a few clicks away! Life has to be moved on. You have to be happy to make others happy. Divorce does not imply a full spot in your life. Meet people, make friends, and enjoy your life!
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