Top 10 Dance Moves to Turn Him On
Hey, you sexy thing! Do you believe in miracles? Well, the truth is if you learn how to bust a move you may be able to inspire your partner and give him a big hard…er, hard-to-resist vibe!
Yes, the grinds, kicks and wiggles you use on the dance floor are a great attractant, and can actually give your crush a preview of what hotness awaits them should the two of you start seriously dating. So be confident, be deliberate and learn the techniques to avoid embarrassing yourself.
Mark the follow top 10 dance moves down…but use at your own risk, because they are sizzling!
1.Use your entire body
A recent scientific study showed that the “best” perceived dancers used their entire body for their dancing repertoire and varied their movements. (Meaning they put their torso and necks into the dance) In contrast, bad dancers made repetitive movements and mostly used their arms and legs. In like manner, if you really want to impress your guy on the dance floor put your entire body into the song, and show him your freaky girlfriend potential.
Yes, the grind never goes unappreciated. The grind may be associated with strippers or “easy women” but that’s only if you overdo it and act like a stripper. Actually, you can make your dance grind very subtle and avoid that crass association. The point of grinding is overtly sexual; you’re moving your backside around a man’s loins, but in the context of dancing. The key is to be subtle and “accidentally” brush up against him as you dance slowly and to the music. Then as you can sense his approval (rarely do they ever object!) you can get closer to him and directly push against his midsection. Don’t “hump” but sway your hips and keep in sync with the dance theme.
3. Put your hand behind his neck
This move works brilliantly, and that’s whether you are standing in front of him or grinding with him behind you. You can put your one hand or both hands behind him while grinding or slow dancing, or you can reach around and touch his head or neck in vampire-like fashion. This is a great way to get his attention and let him know you really desire intimacy.
4. Touch him subtly with your breasts
Again, no complaints coming from any straight men! You can’t be a total freak about it, so keep things subtle and as “accidental” as possible. Move your shoulders around when you’re dancing together or when you’re grinding so that your breasts can accidentally brush against his arms or his chest. If he moves closer to you, you can bet you have his attention. However, don’t “admit” that you were going for a boob grab all along.
5. Drop your hands
Dancing wise, it’s better to keep your hands placed around him, but then again you’re not on Dancing with the Stars. Instead, you’re trying to flirt and achieve intimacy in whatever polite way possible. So during a grind dance, try dropping your hands to your sides so that your hands are dangerously close to his legs and his butt. Don’t touch him too quickly; make him earn it by refraining from touching until his dancing becomes faster and farther reaching, if you catch our drift.
6. Use your fingers!
It’s always a huge turn on when you your fingers explore his fingers. This is a good move for side dancing. At first, you can simply arrange for an accidental finger touch, and then refrain from moving them away in shyness. Instead, soak in the intimacy and then do it again. If you do a slow dance, and he’s very into you, you can even try to lock hands and let your respective fingers mingle. This little piggy is turned on!
7. Make him touch you
Don’t try this move until your guy is clearly drooling for your attention. Slip your thumb into his jeans or underneath his belt. This is a cry for intimacy in of itself, but we got one even better: during a grind or during a slow dance guide his hand to hold your body; usually around your waist or your rib cage, just under your bosom.
8. Try the dip!
A dip refers to a sexy move in which a partner supports your back, as you arch backward and bend your supporting leg. Meanwhile, you raise the other leg high and drop your head back. Your partner grabs your free leg making this an ultra sexy “classic.” Of course, if the guy is clueless, you might have difficulty pulling it off. However, an experienced dancer will sense what you’re doing as you lean back and will support you.
9. Drop it, now!
Dropping it refers to a sexy dance move that involves both partners facing the same direction (like a grind) but with the woman bending over at her hips while keeping her legs straight. This raises her backside, “presenting” as it were, to her partner. The next step is to rise back to standing position but to do so slowly, even while she keeps her hips vibrating to the beat.
10. Put on the right face and let your hips move freely!
Much of the eroticism of club dancing comes from your eye gaze (direct eye contact if you’re very interested in him) and swinging those long locks around. Not only can you give it a shake but you can also play with it using your digits. Last but not least, remember to swing your hips slowly!
Remember this above all else: dancing sends out just as many signals as body languages, facial expressions and quirky comments. You might even say that club dancing is simulated sex, in a subtle way. So by all means, send out those signals if you’re dancing with someone you really like. If you pull this off right, you will have his undivided attention for the whole night and maybe for the rest of your lives!
AAPOD : 04/04/2013
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