Going back to someone you who has once rejected you is a difficult thing to do. It might bring back memories of the past days when you were subjected to tears and pain during the first time of rejection.
Heartache suffered during the first rejection phase will come back to haunt you again and emotions will swell up. It is never easy to again revisit through the disturbing flashes from the past when you had to cut off your love bond with a loved person.
However, if you find that living life without the person you rejected is difficult then you may be left with no option but to go for a patch up with the one you had once broken up.
Here are some tips to help you get back to the one who has hurt you in the past.
Wait for the right time.
Patience is an important virtue to exercise if you want to overcome the bad feeling of rejection and long to get back to the one who has once rejected you. Wait for the opportune time when your ex realizes the sufferings and pain he has caused you while rejecting you. It may take a lot of time for the realization to come in but you need to have patience and wait for the right time to get back to your ex flame. Advancing before the right time might actually work against your interest. Let the rejection of the first time slide down deep inside before you commit yourself once again to the same person who has rejected you.
Make repair attempts
You can take initiatives in striking a conversation. Start to drop hints that show you are interested in getting back in relationship with him once again. If you have done something wrong in the past because of which you had to face rejection from your love interest then you need to make amends. Make attempts at resolving the differences that come between you and your partner.
Mix up with his friends and family
Create a good impression on his beloved and close ones if you really wish to get back to the one who once rejected you. Getting closer to the friends and family of your love interest will help you in the long run. Talking to his friends and family members will also give you an idea about the things that your love interest would like to see in his partner. Find out from his friends about the behavioral or other problems in you because of which you had to face rejection during the first time. You can rectify your problems with your love interest with the help of your partner’s friends.
Grab the opportunity to reconnect
If there is a problem in getting back the old flame, who had once rejected you, try to do things that help you reconnect. You do not have to establish a love bond but you can grab the chances of re-establishing communication and forging a new leaf of friendship if getting back seems difficult.
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