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How to Be a Boy's Friend

Posted on :2013-03-15 in

They say that it is quite difficult for a boy and girl to just be friends, with the issue of over attachment and romantic supposition coming into play quite often, but in this fast time of evolving beliefs and traditional systems, we are breaking out of conformities and finding a place for ne attachments and relationships, so not the gender conformations do not apply the way they used to.

So if you have a boy who is a very good friend or if you want to be friends with a boy, you should be able to start or reciprocate back the friendship that he has extended towards you so when looking to be a boy’s friend here are a few things that you should pay attention to, and try to be the best friend, that you possibly can to him.
 

  1. The first rule of the game is to realize the fact that boys are inherently different from girls when it comes to forming friendships and alliances. So you will have to approach a bit differently and then form a strong bod hence.
     
Be a Boy's Friend

 

  1. The first thing that you shall need to take care of is to dress appropriately, do not go overboard in trying to impress the boy as it may come across as you trying to flirt and try to engage in something that might be misconstrued, try to be as casual as possible, do not make it sloppy but relaxed and comfortable.
     
  2. Do not act like a prissy princess, no matter what the lingo be among girlfriends, boys find extra girly behaviour highly annoying, in order to be a good friend, you need to be more relaxed and outgoing, the kind who isn’t afraid of getting their hands dirty once in a while and is brave an bold, if your fortitude can be respected, then you know that the boy will definitely respect you as a friend.
     
  3. Even though we talked about how you have to tone down the girl in you, do not start behaving like a boy exactly, now that is something that might really come across as creepy and weird, you have to be girl, as you are expected to be one, the only thing is to tone down the shrill voice which screams OMG at everything, under control, if you can master that you are the really likable specimen amongst the womankind that boys would like to befriend.
     
  4. Be casual and confident, try to start a conversation and try to gauge what your common interests are, more often than not, common interests crop up between two people which makes a life much more easier, the thought of having someone who is of the opposite sex and still be interested in things you do is often exciting and plus it has been found in studies that boys find it easier to share their innermost feelings with girls than other boys. So as you may see you already do have an advantage here, just go ahead and make great friends with a boy.
     
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