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How to Avoid Looking Desperate

Posted on :2012-05-24 in

If you have got a huge crush on someone then you can express your love but is best to avoid looking desperate. Being frantic or anxious in love will not help you get your desired partner attracted towards you.

In fact, showing desperation for someone is a big blunder in a love relationship. Even if you are secretly trying to get into a relationship, it is best to keep the signs of desperation hidden. Here are some of the ways in which you could avoid looking desperate.

Do not Try Too Hard

It is natural when people fall get a crush on someone, they try and do things that will help them get attention of their desired partner. There is no harm in catching the eyeballs of your partner with your actions or with your words spoken but it is best not to try too hard to make your crush notice you. Indulging in unnecessary actions before your crush and doing things that are not required just to get your crush notice you will seem like you are desperate.
 

Avoid Looking Desperate

Avoid self-deprecation

Sometimes when people remain single for a long time, they tend to get a little negative and start making self-deprecating references. It is not a good thing to underestimate your potential to attract an eligible date. Out of desperation, people also make fun of their single status without knowing that their jokes on being single are reflecting the insecurity that you suffer from. Avoid falling into this defense mechanism as it will show your desperation for shedding the single status and entering into a relationship.

Don’t appear creepy

When we love someone, we also want to learn everything about them- where they go, who their friends are, what they do, what are their likes and dislikes and so on. Often, people become so desperate to be with their crush that they start stalking them. Avoid stalking your crush because it is a clear sign of desperation. If your crush comes to know that you are stalking him/her then he/she might start despising you rather than liking you. Stop being creepy, instead start doing things that will paint a positive picture in front of your desired partner.

Avoid Bombarding Your Crush With emails or texts

It is alright to send emails or texts to your crush but if you do not get any response after a couple of times then it best not to bombard him/her with your messages. You can resend the text if you get no reply from the other end but you should take it as a disinterest of your crush if there has been no response for your texts or emails.

Avoid being clingy

Your liking for someone should not make you cling to him all the time even though that is the only thing you want to do. Strike up a conversation when you see your crush in a party but do not indulge in non-stop conversation and ignore the presence of other people around you. Interact with others at the party to show that you are not desperate only towards your crush.
 

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