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Are You Still in Love With Your Ex

Posted on :2012-08-31 in

A break-up is always painful and it is never expected for a relationship. But still it happens. Despite lots of effort and careful handling we can’t keep in tune with the man once we loved.  Human relationship is such a complicated issue that is never driven by logic.

After we terminate a relation we often feel that we have left some strings attached with the man once we had the relationship with. In case you have felt the same dilemma have you ever thought how can you come out of this feeling and how you can cope with this stress of being in love with your ex? Here we have sorted out the dilemma.

There are two ways you can avail for coping with this relationship dilemma: one is trying to cope with the present situation that you two have stepped far apart. Secondly you can think of reconciliation. But for reconciliation you have to judge the situation if there is any logic to step in further in your ex’s life.  Before you consider for reconciliation, you have to find if
 

  1. Your EX is leading a single life
  2. he is committed to someone else
  3. he has the same feeling for you
  4. You two can overcome the follies and negatives you faced.
Are You Still in Love With Your Ex

In case you find the answers of all these questions are positive, you can think of reconciliation and to approach him for a meeting, otherwise you should consider for starting afresh. Now you may wonder how to start afresh.

Starting something new

The simplest reason to remember your Ex is the loneliness of your mind. You can start a new course, or may join a new community, or you may simply keep a pet with you. None of these remedies be the alternative of your soft corner for him, but all these activities will keep you engaged and will help you in finding a new bond.

Pamper yourself

Sometimes we all feel lonely because we don’t our own self, or we forget to love our own self. You may start doing some beauty treatment for you; you may consider taking some spa treatment which will help you to de-stressed or unwind; or you can simply try a new hair cut and hair color. With all these self pampering activities you will recreate you own image and that will keep you happy and engrossed in your own grooming. This is the easiest way you will be able to fill the vacuum you have in your mind for your EX.

Go for psycho-analysis

Remember those days when you two were good friends and after that you became unfriendly to each other. Remember again the transformation of your good friendship into the irritating one where you decided to move apart. Once you will remember all the good days and bad days you will be able to come out of the infatuation/attraction left for him because as a rationale you will never like to plunge into a risky situation again.

Think of the pros and cons of renewing your old relationship. If you prefer logic you will find lots of cons in this renewal process. In that case you have left with one option, which is moving ahead with your own life. In fact, this is the best way to cope with this situation as time is the best healer.
 

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