Come on! This is not a crime to love an older woman. How does age can be a barrier in love? Or you are thinking it another way?
To dip deeper in the discussion, you need to analyze the topic in both men and women versions. Most men want mature, confident, and attractive women and for this reason, they cannot find suitable matches in the boundary of their own age barrier. However, a woman wants a charming, humorous, ambitious, and attractive man, so they do not mind younger men coming to their life.
Like any other relationship, a younger man and older woman relationship also has some pros and cons. Read on to explore the pros and cons.
The advantages of cougar relationship:
Younger men are less ambitious: Younger men are least bothered about their career, future planning, and obligations. Women really like this. Men, who are captured by their finance, share market, mortgage, and other obligations, are less attractive to women. For this reason, a 20-year-old lures a mature woman more than a mature man of her age.
Younger men love to learn: You cannot deny it. Younger men are always willing to learn new things; from bedroom to boardroom! Women just love this trait of younger men. Thy think that there is someone, who value their experience and learning. It is easier to mold their way of thinking, rather than trying it out with an older man!
Younger men have fewer issues: Yes, you heart it right. Younger men have less issues, compared to a mature person. Of course, a man of 20 will have fewer complications in his life regarding his past affairs and relationship. So if you are attracted to an younger man, you do not have to deal with his ex-girlfriends or kids.
Younger men are more attractive: Let’s face it guys, younger men look far better than their older counterpart. You must not disagree to the fact that physical attraction plays a vital part in a relationship. Younger men are handsome, in shape, well built, and have great stamina. Of course, they make your appearance envious for other women in the party!
The disadvantages of cougar relationship:
Younger men are financially insecure: When it comes to money, comfort, and security, most women would agree that younger men are disappointing. Some younger men prefer older women to pay their bills as well. So, check whether it is your case or not!
Younger men are commitment-phobic: Most women would agree to this. Younger men are casual, when they enter into a relationship with an older woman. In fact, younger men are afraid of commitments. They will be with you for sex. But once you ask them to be serious with the relationship, they will turn their back at you. This is the basic philosophy of most of the younger men.
Age has nothing to do with love. Look at the celebrity couples (Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, Linda Hogan and Charlie Hill, Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon, Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubry, and Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer), where the woman is older than the man. These cougar couples are happy as any other couple, in love. All you need to be in love after all.
Are you attracted to an older woman or a younger man? Well, now you can judge your status in this relationship, if it works. Take your decision seriously while keeping all the aforementioned discussion in your mind.
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