The three magical words that sounds musical like the sweet chimes yet so meaningful considers two persons “you” and “I” and their most intense and romantic feelings for each other.
From the very childhood, we get into the world of fairy tales and fantasies where a prince charming meets his lady love and how he woos his love and they live happily ever after. Even as a child or a youngster we wish to meet our someone special one day and create an imaginative picture of our loved one and wish that our pair will be one of those “made for each other”.
So the 5 things to consider before saying I love you helps us to get over our dilemma if any and be sure of ourselves as well as the person to whom we are revealing our most sacred and intimate feelings.
First be sure of your own feelings before saying ‘I love you’ to someone. Since you have longed for that special someone, ask yourself whether you really mean it, whether your heart really falls for that person or is it just an infatuation. It is quite usual to get attracted by someone, anyone you look up to, any quality of that person you get drawn towards. So first analyze your feelings, ask yourself and if you find your heart says ‘yes’ then bingo move on and take the step.
Are you saying it to the right person? As the saying goes ’matters of the heart’, we sometimes fall for the wrong person. It is not that the person is wrong or bad, it is just that he/she is not the right one for us. This often happens due to incompatibility. At times we get infatuated by someone in such a way that we deny realizing the fact that we are not meant for each other.
When is the right time to convey your feelings? It is very important that you convey your feelings to your love but it is more important to time it right. It is possible that your partner is not ready for a relationship at present and considers you as a very good friend with who he/she can share any anything on the Earth. A sudden ‘I love you’ might take him/her aback and affect your long term friendship. Ask yourself if you are really aware of the person’s feelings towards you.
Which is the right way to convey your feelings? You are the best judge for this. Different people express their love in various manners. Sometimes a simple smile speaks a lot more than words or a red rose conveys it all whereas a lovely bouquet cannot. After all it is your feelings that are more powerful than any word or action. So look into his/her eyes and express yourself with the three letters.
Prepare yourself for a negative reciprocation. It is quite natural that the person you love holds a different feeling for you and is not aware of your feelings. It is also possible that he/she is already in a relationship. God forbid, if any such things arise don’t lose heart, as HE might have thought of something even more beautiful for you.
AAPOD : 09/04/2013
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