10 Reasons To Be Happy At Being Dumped
Being dumped is one the worst phases of life. It affects your self-esteem. You agonize over what you did wrong. You wonder if you could have done anything to make things work out. Take a chill pill. Here are ten reasons to be happy for being dumped --
You don’t have to deal with all that you did not like about your Ex: Make a list of all the things that you disliked about your ex. You may even write it down as constant reminder. This may help you accept that the relationship you were in perhaps wasn’t all that great.
You can explore the dating scenario once again: Well, you are a free bird again! Brush up your looks, hone your attractiveness and be ready to rock on the dating scenario all over again.
You don’t have to deal with your Ex’s likes and dislikes: Remember that hobby that you wanted to take up, that your ex did not approve of? The TV shows you wanted to watch but could not since your ex wasn’t fond of them? Well, now you don’t have to abide by someone else’s rules!
You have the scope to reorganize your thoughts about what you want: It gives you a scope to think about what you want from life. Perhaps you’d realize that you’d like to pursue some other activities with zest at the moment.
You have more time for your friends: Remind yourself of all the picnics, basketball games, barbeques, and shopping trips that your friends had invited you to join, and you had to decline because your Ex wanted ‘couple time’ with you. Now you’ve freedom to plan your schedule!
You have more time to devote to your career: Thinking of working longer hours or taking up a professional course to boost your professional skills? This may be the perfect opportunity as you don’t have to rush out of work to keep up dinner dates.
You’d have some “me time”: The relaxing spa day you long wanted to experience, the book that you are yet to finish, the culinary experimentations that you never had time for, the weeding that your garden has been begging for – well now is the time for all that, and much more!
You’d have lower phone bill: Now you no longer need to chat for hours over the phone, or send mushy text messages at night – this means lowering your phone bill considerably, that you could add to your savings, or spend on something you want!
You’d get back your peace of mind: When a relationship goes sour, it entails a lot of fights, sadness etc. Prolonging the relationship would have mounted all such negative emotions.
You have a second chance to choosing a better partner for yourself: If a person dumped you, she/he is not worthy of your affection. This gives you an opportunity to find the Mr./Miss Perfect One for you!
Being dumped feels so painful because it makes you feel unwanted and unworthy. It might be difficult to believe it at the moment, but things will look up very soon, and you’d have a bright new future.
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